Since 2019, I’ve helped writers shape their stories—editing, organizing, and guiding them from blank page to published book. Over the past six years, I’ve noticed a few consistent challenges—especially for those pursuing self-publishing.
Writers Often Feel Overwhelmed
Many authors underestimate how much work writing and publishing really take. They start strong, then feel overwhelmed, stuck, or doubt their abilities. Some begin to believe they aren’t “real writers.” This spiral is common—and it’s not because they lack skill.
It happens because no one prepared them for what being an author actually requires today.
Publishing Has Changed—Fast
The publishing world has shifted drastically. With the rise of self-publishing, writers now have access to tools that used to belong only to big publishers. This is powerful—but also misleading.
Self-publishing looks easy on the surface. Because it’s accessible, many assume it’s simple. But publishing on your own means you wear every hat: writer, editor, marketer, formatter, and business owner.
That’s a steep learning curve, especially for creatives managing ADHD or executive functioning challenges.
You must research platforms, formatting, ISBNs, and marketing. You’re responsible for hiring—and budgeting for—editors, cover designers, and more. You must think like an entrepreneur, not just a writer.
Many authors dive in without understanding this. When reality hits, their confidence takes a hit.
The Information Age Changed Everything
We live in a world where everything is just a few taps away—answers, inspiration, AI tools. These advances are exciting but come with trade-offs.
Some writers rely too much on AI or surface-level templates. They skip the deeper, creative process that makes writing meaningful. Others get stuck in analysis paralysis because there’s just so much information to take in.
It’s not about being lazy. It’s about being overwhelmed by too many options and not enough guidance.
Traditional Mindsets Still Linger
Even self-publishing authors often think like traditionally published ones. They assume the process will just… happen.
Some believe their editor or coach will handle everything. Others expect that once the book is written, the rest falls into place. Many think platforms like Amazon will market their book for them.
But here’s the truth: in self-publishing, everything depends on you. You are the project manager. That can be empowering—or discouraging—depending on what support you have.
While self-publishing continues to grow, traditional publishing still holds weight in the eyes of many authors—and for good reason. In a data-driven article by Meghan Stevenson, she breaks down how traditional publishers still offer broader distribution and higher average book sales, especially for nonfiction titles. This influence can shape how new authors think about success, even if they ultimately choose to go the indie route.
When writers realize that success is their responsibility—regardless of publishing path—they can either freeze or shift their mindset and keep going.
What This Series Will Cover
This blog series exists to clear up confusion and help you move forward with clarity. Future posts will break down:
- The differences between traditional, hybrid, and self-publishing
- What you’re responsible for as an author in each path
- How to choose the best option for your goals
- Writing tips based on genre and purpose
- ADHD-friendly writing strategies
- Realistic timelines and expectations
- Tools, services, and trusted resources
Think of this as your real-world publishing guide—something that meets you where you are, with no fluff or false promises.
You’re Not Behind—You’re Just Beginning
If you’re feeling lost or overwhelmed, let me reassure you: you’re not behind, and you’re not doing it wrong. You’re simply at the beginning of the learning curve. Every successful author starts there.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll dive deeper into the types of publishing and what each path demands. And if you would like one-on-one help, 👉 Contact me here to get expert help with editing, organizing your book, or building a publishing plan that works for you.
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